She won’t stop crying. Sophie’s mother told the producer. I’m sorry. Maybe we should leave. They were standing at the Family Feud podium, an application her late husband had submitted months ago, and Sophie had been sobbing since the game started. Playing without her dad was too much. The producer nodded sympathetically and started to escort them backstage.
That’s when Steve Harvey stopped the entire show. It was November 18th, 2023 at the Family Feud Studio in Atlanta, Georgia. It was a standard Saturday taping. Two families competing, Steve Harvey bringing his signature humor and warmth. The audience laughing and cheering. Everything was proceeding exactly as it should, except for the 8-year-old girl at podium number five who couldn’t stop crying.
Sophie Brennan was 8 years old. And two weeks ago, her entire world had collapsed. Her father, Michael Brennan, had been killed in a car accident on November 2nd. A drunk driver had run a red light and hit Michael’s car on the driver’s side. He died at the scene. He was 34 years old. Michael Brennan had been the biggest Family Feud fan Sophie had ever known.
His love for the show was legendary in their small Georgia town. He watched every episode, shouting answers at the TV, keeping score with his family as if they were really competing. He’d made watching Family Feud a nightly ritual, dinner, then gather around the TV, then play along. This is the best show on television, Michael would say.

Smart, funny, brings families together. Doesn’t get better than that. 7 months before the accident, Michael had done something he’d been talking about for years. He’d finally submitted an application for his family to compete on Family Feud. He’d filled out the forms, recorded the audition video, sent it all in with hope and excitement.
His wife, Catherine, had been skeptical. Michael, do you know how many people apply? The odds are impossible. Doesn’t matter, Michael had said. Sophie and I are going to be on Family Feud one day. I can feel it. We’re going to stand at that podium with Steve Harvey and win $20,000. That’s the dream, Cath. Sophie had believed him completely.
Her dad’s dreams always came true. He promised her a puppy when she turned seven. She got the puppy. He’d promised they’d go to Disney World. They went. When dad said they’d be on Family Feud, Sophie knew it would happen. She just never imagined it would happen without him. 6 weeks after Michael submitted the application, Family Feud called.
The Brennan family had been selected to compete. The taping was scheduled for November 18th. Michael was so excited he couldn’t sit still. He told everyone, co-workers, neighbors, the cashier at the grocery store. He’d achieved his dream. His family was going to be on his favorite show. Then November 2nd happened.
The Family Feud confirmation packet arrived 3 days after Michael’s funeral. Catherine found it in the mailbox and collapsed on the front porch, clutching the envelope that contained her husband’s last dream. They’d been selected as an alternate family initially, a backup in case another family couldn’t make it. The letter said they should be prepared to tape on November 18th if called upon.
Catherine wanted to decline. How could they possibly go? How could they stand on that stage with Michael’s empty space beside them? How could they play a game when their family had just been shattered? Sophie made the decision for her. I want to go, Mom, she said 5 days before the taping. Dad would want us to go.
Honey, I don’t know if that’s a good idea. It might be too sad. I know it’ll be sad, but Dad worked so hard to get us on that show. He was so excited. If we don’t go, it’s like uh it’s like his excitement dies, too. I want to keep it alive. Catherine looked at her 8-year-old daughter, this tiny person who just lost her father and was somehow holding it together better than the adults around her, and made a decision. They would go.
The family feud team needed five family members. The Brennan family now had four. Catherine, Sophie, Michael’s brother, David, and Catherine’s sister, Karen. They were one short. The producer said they could bring a close family friend to fill the fifth spot. But Sophie had another idea. “Can we leave Dad’s podium empty?” she asked the producer on the phone.
“Can we put his name there even though he’s not there?” There was a long pause. “Sweetheart, that’s not really how the show works.” “Please,” Sophie said. “He’s the reason we’re here. He should be part of it.” The producer consulted with the show’s director and ultimately with Steve Harvey himself. The answer came back yes.
They would acknowledge Michael’s absence. They would honor why the family was there. The night before the taping, Sophie insisted on wearing something of her father’s. She chose his Old Family Feud t-shirt, a shirt he’d bought online years ago, faded from dozens of washings with Steve Harvey’s face printed on the front.
It was a men’s large comically oversized on her small frame, hanging past her knees like a dress, but it smelled like her dad. It felt like wearing a hug from someone who wasn’t there anymore. She also brought her father’s name tag from the confirmation packet. He’d already filled it out, practicing for the moment he’d stand at the podium.
Sophie held that name tag like a talisman. Proof that her dad was supposed to be here. Proof that this moment was meant to include him. When they arrived at the family feud studio, Sophie was okay. Nervous, sad, but okay. She could do this. she could honor her dad by experiencing what he’d been looking forward to for months.
Then they walked onto the stage. The bright lights hit Sophie like a physical blow, standing at those podiums, surrounded by cameras and crew and the energy of a live audience. The reality crashed over her. Dad should be here. Dad should be standing at podium number five right now, bouncing with excitement, ready to hit that buzzer.
Dad should be the one high-fiving everyone. the one making this moment magical. Instead, there was an empty space where he should have been. Sophie started crying. Not the quiet, controlled tears of someone trying to hold it together. The deep body shaking sobs of genuine grief. She couldn’t stop. The more she tried to control it, the worse it got.
Catherine pulled her close, trying to shield her from the cameras. It’s okay, baby. It’s okay. We can leave if you want. But Sophie didn’t want to leave. Leaving would mean giving up. Would mean admitting that Dad’s dream died with him. She shook her head, but she couldn’t stop crying. The game started. Steve Harvey walked out to his signature applause, ready to begin.
He introduced the two families, the Brennan’s and the Johnson’s. When he got to the Brennan family, he paused at podium number five. Now, I understand the Brennan family is playing with four members today,” Steve said carefully. “Usually, we have five, but I’m told there’s a special reason for that.
” Catherine, standing at the first podium, spoke up. Our husband and father, Michael Brennan, passed away two weeks ago. This was his application, his dream. We’re here to honor him. The studio audience made sympathetic sounds. Steve’s face showed genuine emotion. I’m so sorry for your loss,” Steve said sincerely.
“And I want you to know Michael is here today. He’s here in spirit, and we’re going to play this game for him. Is that all right with everyone?” The Brennan family nodded. Sophie was still crying, but she nodded, too. The game began. Catherine played the faceoff against the Johnson family patriarch and won. She chose to play. The Brennan took their positions at their podiums.
Steve read the first question. Name something a father teaches his child. David buzzed in first, riding a bike. Good answer. The board showed it was number three. Karen went next, tying shoes. Number five on the board. Then it was Sophie’s turn. She stood at her podium, still crying, trying to see through her tears. Steve walked over to her, kneeling down to her level.
“Hey there, sweetheart,” Steve said gently. “What’s your name?” “Sophie,” she managed. “Sophie, that’s beautiful. And whose shirt are you wearing?” That’s a handsome man on there. He pointed to his own face on her shirt. Sophie almost smiled. It was my daddy’s. Your daddy had good taste. Steve paused. Sophie, I know this is hard.
I know your daddy was supposed to be here with you, but you know what? He is here. He’s watching. And he’s so proud of you for being brave enough to come today. Sophie looked at him with tearfilled eyes. Can you give me an answer to the question? Steve asked. What’s something a father teaches his child? Sophie’s lip trembled. To to be brave.
Steve stood up slowly. His own eyes were filling with tears. To be brave, he repeated into the microphone. Show me to be brave. The board didn’t light up. It wasn’t on the board, but nobody cared. Steve turned to the audience. You know what? That’s the best answer we’ve had all day. That might not be on the board, but that’s the truth.
That’s what fathers teach, to be brave, the audience applauded. Not politely, genuinely, emotionally. But Sophie was getting worse. She couldn’t stop crying. She was gasping for breath between sobs. The empty podium beside her seemed to be pulling her down into grief she couldn’t escape. By the third question, Catherine made a decision.
This wasn’t working. Sophie was inconsolable, and staying was only making things worse. They needed to go. She caught the eye of the producer standing off camera and made a cut gesture. The producer nodded and started walking toward the stage. “I’m sorry,” Catherine said to Steve. “My daughter, she won’t stop crying.
This is too much for her. I think we need to leave.” The producer reached the podium. “It’s okay, Mrs. Brennan. Let me help you backstage.” He started to guide Sophie and Catherine away from the podiums. That’s when Steve Harvey stopped the entire show. Wait,” Steve said firmly. “Hold on. Don’t take them off the stage.” The producer stopped, confused.
The audience murmured. Steve walked over to Sophie and Catherine. He knelt down to Sophie’s level again. “Sophie,” Steve said. “Look at me, baby.” Sophie turned her tear stained face toward him. “I know you’re sad. I know this isn’t how tonight was supposed to be, but your daddy worked so hard to get you here.
He filled out that application. He recorded that video. He did all of that because he wanted you to have this experience. And if we let you leave right now, crying, his dream for you doesn’t come true. Sophie stared at him. “So, here’s what I’m thinking,” Steve continued. “We’re going to take a break.
We’re going to let you sit down for a minute and breathe, and then we’re going to come back and finish this game. Not because you have to, but because your daddy would want you to. Because wherever he is right now, he’s cheering for you. and I want him to see his daughter finish what he started. Sophie looked at her mother. Catherine nodded speechless.
Okay, Sophie whispered. Steve stood and addressed the audience. Ladies and gentlemen, we’re going to take a 5-minute break. This little girl just lost her father 2 weeks ago. He was the one who applied for this family to be here, and she’s trying so hard to honor him. So, we’re going to give her a minute, and then we’re going to finish this game for Michael Brennan.
The audience applauded. Many were crying. During the break, Steve sat with Sophie off camera. He didn’t try to make her stop crying. He didn’t tell her to be strong. He just sat with her. “You know what your daddy was doing when he applied for this show?” Steve asked. Sophie shook her head. “He was telling you that you matter, that his time with you was important enough to fight for that he wanted memories with you.
And now you’re here making a memory that includes him, even though he can’t be here physically.” That’s beautiful, Sophie. Uh, that’s love. When they came back, Sophie was calmer, still sad, but centered. Steve had given her a focus. She was finishing this for her dad. The game resumed. The Brennan family played with a different energy now.
Not trying to win, but trying to honor. Every answer became a tribute. Every moment at the podium became a memorial. They didn’t win. The Johnson family took the game 182 to 154, but nobody cared about the score. After the game ended, Steve did something unprecedented. He called Sophie back to center stage. Sophie, come here, baby. He said.
Sophie walked to him. Steve knelt down one more time. I want to tell you something your daddy would want you to know, Steve said. Are you listening? Sophie nodded. Your daddy’s love didn’t die with him. It’s right here. Steve touched Sophie’s chest over her heart. It lives in you. Every time you’re brave, that’s him.
Every time you try something, even though you’re scared, that’s him. Every time you love your family, that’s him. He didn’t leave you, Sophie. He just changed form. He’s in every brave thing you do now. Sophie was crying again, but differently, healing tears. Steve pulled her into a hug.
Your daddy is so proud of you. I promise you that he’s watching and he’s proud. The audience gave them a standing ovation, not because of gameplay, because of love, because of a moment that transcended television and touched something deeper. After the taping, Steve arranged for the Brennan family to stay. He spent an hour with them talking about Michael, hearing stories about his love for family feud, sharing his own experiences with loss.
He also gave Sophie something she’d treasure forever. The buzzer from podium number five. The one her father should have used. Every time you push this, Steve said, remember that your daddy’s dream came true. You made it come true. And that’s the greatest gift a daughter can give. The episode aired 8 weeks later.
The producers did something unusual. They aired the full story, including the break, including Steve’s speech, including all the raw emotion. The response was overwhelming. Over 110 million people watched the clip online. It became the most viewed family feud moment in the show’s history. But the impact went far beyond views.
Families dealing with loss wrote to Sophie and her family by the thousands, sharing their own stories of honoring deceased loved ones. The # number sign finish it for dad trended for days with people sharing how they’d completed dreams or goals that their late parents had wanted for them. Steve Harvey’s foundation created a program called Michael’s Dream which helps families dealing with loss complete experiences their loved ones had planned but never got to see through. Sophie Brennan is 16 now.
She still watches Family Feud every night, the ritual her father started. She keeps the buzzer on her desk and sometimes when she’s studying for a hard test or facing something scary, she presses it. It reminds me that dad believed I could do hard things. Sophie says now that buzzer was for him, but it’s also for me.
It’s proof that even when someone dies, their dreams for you don’t have to. Every November 18th, the anniversary of that taping, Steve Harvey posts a photo on social media. It’s the picture of him kneeling beside Sophie on the Family Feud stage with the caption, “For Michael Brennan, who taught his daughter to be brave, we’re still honoring you, brother.
” And Sophie always responds, “Thank you for helping me finish what he started.” That’s what happens when you stop for people. You don’t just change one moment. You change how someone carries their grief forward. You show them that their loss doesn’t have to mean the end of their loved ones dreams. If this story of grief, compassion, and the power of honoring those we’ve lost moved you, make sure to subscribe and hit that like button.
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